As our youngest students are well underway with their 4+ Assessments, I would like to share new things that I am learning with you. I would like to do this so that hopefully it will help you to also support your child to be successful in their Assessments.
How to do everything that you can to support your child to go into their Assessments happily.
This has been a huge one. Not just this year but every single year. If your child goes into their Assessments unhappy or upset, they will most likely not be successful. The only times that I’ve heard of children who have been successful who have gone into their Assessments crying and been offered a place was at schools that had a very strong sibling policy. Apart from this, they have been unsuccessful. This is why it is so important to prepare your child for this. Prepare them to be able to go into heir Assessment feeling calm, happy and relaxed. If a child goes into their Assessment crying or upset, they will not be able to show their truest potential. In all of our 4+ Assessment preparation lessons, we support our students to have the best possible chances for success by supporting them to go into their Assessments calmly and happily. We also spend a lot of time coaching and guiding parents as to the strategies that they can use with their children to prepare them to be left somewhere new and unfamiliar to them.
Is an online lesson as effective as an in person one?
This is a question that I hear time and time again. We are exclusively online. Some parents that I speak to may initially doubt how the lessons can be as effective as an in person lesson.
First of all, question what an ‘effective’ lesson actually is?
Why would it matter if the teacher is there physically or virtually? Why does it make a difference?
I honestly believe that it doesn’t.
To me an ‘effective’ lesson is how much a child learns, how much they absorb, how much they can accelerate their learning and take it to the next level.
Our lessons are incredibly effective and they will continue to provide the highest quality of support to all of our students and allow them to have the highest possible chances for success in their 4+ Assessments.
Why is it so important to have the teacher physically present?
So many clients that I speak to tell me that it is important that they have a teacher be present. However, having done this for so many years, I can tell you that these exact same parents are the ones who often contact me after the fact (the 4+ Assessments) and tell me that their child hasn’t been successful and they then need to prepare for the 7+ Assessments. To me the most important aspect of 4+ Assessment preparation is that the child actually gains entry into at least one of their schools of choice. No one can guarantee that your child will be successful but was I can definitely guarantee is that your child will be ready to go in and be as successful as they can be. That your chid will have learn everything that they need to have learnt in order to go into any 4+ Assessment and shine. That your child will know exactly what will be expected of them at each school that they will be attending.
Why I think it is important that children can read from as early as possible?
It will take away so many difficulties further down the line. I begin teaching older children all the time who struggle with reading. It takes away from the time that we could be learning other things. We still need to spend time learning phonics, sounding out and looking at spelling patterns. If this is done early on, it will enable you to go a lot deeper into other aspects of your child’s learning. Reading opens so many doors, I cannot even begin to tell you the thousands of reasons that I think reading from a very early age is just so important.
The bond you develop as a family, the vocabulary your child is exposed to, the language they are exposed to, the adventures that they can experience. It’s not JUST about reading the words. To me, there’s so much more to reading than just that.
In many 4+ Assessments, your child will need to blend three letter words. So please do ensure that you have prepared your child to be able to do this.
The biggest mistake parents make with 4+ Assessment preparation…
By far, the biggest mistake that I see parents make with 4+ Assessment preparation is not being crystal clear on exactly what is expected at each round at each different school. They treat each Assessment the same. They are not the same.
And if your child is not prepared, there is no way that we can expect that they will go in and be successful.
Let me give you an example.
One school that we prepare for at 4+ at Round 1 is particularly interested in the confidence of the girls who attend their Assessment.
In terms of confidence, they are looking for girls who can:
Answer questions well, with clarity and confidence
Articulate themselves well
Hold a conversation with an adult who is unfamiliar to them
If children are not prepared for all of these, they will not go into this Assessment and be successful.
It is as simple as that.
So this is my point.
Know your schools.
Know them well.
Know what they are looking for. And if you don’t, enlist the help of someone who does.
We have been doing this for over 16 years and we can help you to have tremendous success in the 4+ Assessments.
The number 1 thing that I’ve learnt so far from the 4+ Assessments.
The most important thing by far is this.
You must know each individual schools very well.
You must know what they are looking for.
You must know their criteria.
You must know how they expect their students to behave and to be in their Assessments.
You must know the exact expectations.
Knowing the schools really well will give you that slight edge that you need to allow your child to go in a truly shine. To show exactly what these schools are looking for and ultimately have options of where YOU ultimately want to send them.
Know your schools.
Preparing for the 4+ Assessments? Book your Sample lesson today and see how we can support you every step of the way to have incredible success.